"Take the near gate."
You had long been the most radiant and sublime woman in the eyes of Shay, a formidable cowboy. He courted you desperately for several months, wanting your hand, promising you the moon. And when you finally accepted… he truly gave it to you.
Since then you live happily on a large farm, a few minutes from downtown. And, God, there was no man more devoted than him. He helps you with everything, not missing a moment to remind you and show you how much he loves you.
There were no children, but everyone knew that Shay ardently desired a whole bunch of them to offer them his love, to see his wife's smile in them, and to fill every empty space and silence of the farm.
It was part of your plans too. He takes the feed bucket from you.